â€œYour generation is ungrateful and you expect too much out of lifeâ€.
This is a statement I’ve both heard and read many times before. It’s been said directly to me, as well as to my generation as a whole. Regardless of how it’s presented, it’s always said with a spirit of annoyance at me (us) and with a high degree of self-righteousness.
I agree, we are often ungrateful. I agree, we do expect a lot out of life. Notice I changed “too much” to ” a lot” because I don’t believe our expectations are too high to be achieved. The other part I disagree with about this statement is that ungratefulness and high expectations have to go hand in hand.
Yes, we need to be more grateful, but I believe you donâ€™t have to be complacent to be grateful.
Thereâ€™s a fine line between being content with what you have and pushing forward to obtain or becoming more. I think itâ€™s soooo important to constantly be doing your best to find that magnificent balance because if you are existing too much on either side, youâ€™re missing out. And I believe that being complacent and choosing not to pursue opportunities you are made for that are right in front of you is just as wrong as being ungrateful.
Are we really the first generation to expect a lot out of life?
You wouldnâ€™t even be in America, the land of opportunity, right now if one of your ancestors along the way didnâ€™t choose to expect more from life and go seek it out. Ever since the first people arrived in America, they have worked to set up this country so that we can expect a lot out of life. Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Thatâ€™s a lot to ask for, donâ€™t you think?
Wars have been fought, people died on ocean voyages on their way over here, our grandparents slaved away at jobs they hated, all so we could have freedom and opportunity. Pretending those opportunities don’t exist or choosing not to take advantage of them is like spitting in the faces of the people who did so much work to make this country great.
Itâ€™s precisely BECAUSE Iâ€™ve been given a lot that I feel called to do a lot with it!
I’m an American and I’ve been given lots of opportunity.Â I can either ignore it or turn around and pass the gift on so that I can continue to bless the country and community that has blessed me so much. I want to be great like my ancestors and do what I can to make things even greater for future generations. We’re building up yo, so lets keep the momentum going rather than letting it stop with us or even worse, allowing our generation to be the ones that sends us into reverse!
So yes, I am grateful (or at least I try to be) for what I have and all that has been done by others to help me achieve it. And yes, I am asking for a lot out of life. The bottom line is that because I have a lot, I expect a lot, so that I can DO a lot.