Now it’s time to get down and dirty with the practical application.Â So far I’ve been all whimsical and inspiring, while I speak in poetry and riddles trying to convince you to ethereally join the extraordinary life style.Â Now I’m going to turn all real on you.Â No, you can’t just continue to make changes to your thinking alone, it’s time to get started on the transformation of your day to day life.
In short, no more pretending…you can’t get away on simply agreeing with all of this on an intellectual level forever.
Trust me, I tried that, remember?Â I told you how I married Scottie thinking he was so fantastic because of all of his genius philosophies and views on life. I loved that I’d found a man who believed in setting a max amount of money he needed to live on and then if he made more than that, he’d give the rest away.Â I mean, that shows what a generous and unique soul he is, right? Who wouldn’t want to date a guy like that?Â Until you get engaged that is and you realize that all this altruistic talk means that even though you’d never planned on being rich, if you ever did in fact find yourself there, you still couldn’t live like it.Â Somehow the glamor of all his beautiful, idealistic dreams started to fade when I realized that I too was going to have to start sacrificing for them!Â I can’t tell you how many conversations we had about “but what if I really, really love that $120 sweater at Anthropologie, do I still have to buy the $20 one at Target… even if we make 2 million a year?Â Really?! OK, but what if we just budget enough so I can buy ALL my clothes at Anthropologie and then if I have some left over at the end of the month, we give THAT away? How much is too much to spend on a vacation… on a house… on the perfect french bulldog, etc., etc?”Â Things that sound good on paper, don’t always look so hot when they’re happening before your very eyes in your very own life!
So this place I found myself in after I slipped that engagement ring on- the place where it hit me like the diamonds we may be throwing towards the orphans one day- this place where I realized that all his unorthodox and slightly dangerous views about life, now applied to my very normal and safe life.
And that’s the place where you are now.
You: “Oh wow, I love dreaming about the big picture and thinking about how beautiful and crazy all of this life stuff really is!”
Me: “OK, but how crazy and beautiful is YOUR life right now?”.
You: “Um, uh, that doesn’t really matter.Â The point is that we’re on the same wave length here.”
Me: “No, the point is that you’re going to have to sack up and do something about all of this”.
You: “oh $&#**”.
Your first official assignment will come in the next post.Â No throwing it out the window because you were “afraid it would self destruct”.Â I’ve heard that excuse before.